It's common "wisdom" in the seduction community that women's picky-ness is justified because they (unlike men) can get pregnant. I recently wrote a post on my other blog that discusses this in more detail. I explain how most of the time, from an evolutionary perspective, women are not justified in being very picky.
Women Are Not Justified In Being Very Picky
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Great article!
And, while everyone is entitled to have personal standards, some women think they are entitled to be bitchy, cold, or rude to enforce their standards, but there is NO justification for this behavior.
It's funny, I think the level of pickiness with women can be dependent on so many social variables it's not even funny, but probably the most common theme I see running through it all is scarcity of young, single girls.
See, I'm in Richmond, Virginia, which has been notoriously been cited time and and time as one of the worst places for young, single, professional guys.
You see 10 guys lined up to talk to every one average looking girl in bars.
Average bars and clubs you go into, you won't see lots of single girls milling about, trying to meet people; more like tables of 5 guys with one girl, or 6-8 guys, and two girls, or groups of two and three couples.
I know a pretty overweight girl who needs to lose like 50 pounds before she looks reasonably attractive, but she WON'T!! She has long, straight blonde hair, can squeeze herself into a skirt and pumps, and tons of guys still hit on her!
This is a far cry from places like DC where many people, including myself, cite numerous instances of being approached by attractive girls, asked to meet their friend, etc. Cities like DC and NYC have a well-documented lopsided single female to male ratio.
One attractive girl I know here in Richmond who has many attractive, selective female friends expressed her distate with DC when she went to see a girlfriend of hers who moved their after college and can't seem to find a guy. She was so shocked and turned off by how all of the girls there were just single, dressed to the 9's and strutting their stuff.
She had the same problem with JAmes Madison Univerisity, where she visited her college-aged sister. We're talking about a college where women vastly outnumber guys. Girls get dressed up for class all the time, get dressed up to go to the gym, are often late to class because they were taking so much time getting dressed up.
She expressed to me one day that she doesn't feel that's the way things should be.
I thought to myself, "No wonder!!! You've been in Richmond all your life! You hate the idea of a place where girls actually have to work to get the time of day from guys! You'd rather 10 guys have to line up to talk to every average, homely looking girl!
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